In my previous article, I talked about going to fetish parties, what to get out of it, what happens there. So to wrap up on the “fetish party” subject, I have answered the most frequently asked questions I receive from people who have never attended a fetish party.

Q: Where do I find a fetish party?
A: If there is a fetish store in the city, you can find flyers there or ask the shopkeepers for information. You can also search or ask around on the internet.

Q: What can I expect to see?
A: People dressed in a lot of different attires hanging out, drinking and dancing basically just having a good time.
Q: Is everyone wearing clothes?
A: Some parties has rules about nudity, but if they don’t I can guarantee that you will see partial nudity and most likely also nude bodies.
Q: Can I change at the premises?
A: Yes. Most parties have a dressing room. Change into your fetish attire and drop all your belongings in the cloakroom.
Q: Is there music?
A: Yes. There is one or more DJ’s whose job it is to keep the dance floor busy! Techno and dance music are very popular. Some DJ’s also plays oldies and pop.
Q: Do people have sexual contact there?
A: Some parties have rules about sexual play at the premises. If they don’t, I can almost guarantee that you will see people playing. Many fetish parties have special rooms where people can play. Some hang out in the “playroom” and the more discrete or wild ones go to the “darkroom”.
Q: Are there only couples?
A: No! There are singles of both sexes. There is a minor overweight of males, but not much. 60% males and 40% females are not unusual.
Q: Are people nice?
A: Yes. People are extremely open-minded and are very forthcoming towards newcomers. People can be very staid forward and say things very direct.
Q: What if I meet a person I know?
A: So what? Then this person knows “your secret” and you know his/hers! The person is at the party for the same reasons that you are.
Q: What if someone takes my picture?
A: Cameras and video equipment are forbidden at fetish parties. There might be some photographers at the venue, but they don’t take your picture without asking you for permission first. Is someone does anyway, contact the staff at the venue.

If you have any questions about fetish parties that I did not answer here, please leave a comment.

Also check out my other fetish guide: Let’s go to a Fetish Party