Fetish Guides
As a fetish blogger, I have written a number of fetish guides dealing with different aspects of latex fetishism and the fetish community. How do you come out with a latex fetish? How do you go to a fetish party? How do I meet other people into latex? How do you wear latex in public? These are all questions I try to answer here.
Do you wish to explore/express your latex fetish in a safe environment together with like-minded people, but cannot attend fetish events physically because of lockdowns or other circumstances? Then you should try latex in VRChat!
What is VRChat?
VRChat is a virtual reality social game. Its users, called “avatars”, can talk to each other and interact in a 3D environment. It’s really an incredible platform where you can explore, play and create. You can dress up as a super hot latex model, hang out with like-minded kinky people or even have virtual sex.
There are fetish meetups where kinky people meet up and have virtual latex fun together. Naturally, these events are age-restricted, with a strict dress code and code of conduct, just like any other real-life fetish event.
People often don’t know how to write a fetLife profile or any other fetish community, as a result the visitors who come to your profile, don’t get interested enough to push the contact button and make that important first contact. Writing a good profile is actually not that hard, the hard part is finding the right words to describe you as a kinky person.
Let me show you how to find the right words for your profile. It does not matter if you are seeking a kinky partner or looking for like-minded friends, this method works for everyone.
Read more...Being at a fetish party surrounded by beautiful like-minded people is an exciting experience and a fantastic opportunity if you are looking for new friends, playmates or even a kinky partner.
Understanding how to socially interact with other people is the key to success and failing to do so will most likely make you come across as immature, shy, awkward or even worse… creepy!
It all comes down to social skills, the skills that we use to communicate and interact with each other, both verbally and non-verbally, through gestures, body language and our personal appearance.
Read more...Do you understand what consent is? I came across this great and simple description of the concept of consent by Rockstar Dinosaur Pirate Princess – like probably most of you have in your social media channels. The description is so simple, straight forward and true to my understanding of consent, that I could not do otherwise than write a post about it.
Rockstar Dinosaur Pirate Princess‘s description reminded me again of how important the strict rules in our fetish community and at events are, and that we need to take care of each other, making sure that we all feel safe. I know, sometimes it is difficult to make sense of specific situations at especially fetish events, but when ever you are in doubt, it might just be a good idea to make sure everything is alright. Therefore, if you ever experience abusive behavior, to yourself or to others, you should, depending on the situation, you can ask directly if they are o.k. or report it to the party security staff.
If you haven’t seen Rockstar Dinosaur Pirate Princess epic blog post yet, go ahead and read it:
If you’re still struggling, just imagine instead of initiating sex, you’re making them a cup of tea.
You say “hey, would you like a cup of tea?” and they go “omg fuck yes, I would fucking LOVE a cup of tea! Thank you!*” then you know they want a cup of tea.
If you say “hey, would you like a cup of tea?” and they um and ahh and say, “I’m not really sure…” then you can make them a cup of tea or not, but be aware that they might not drink it, and if they don’t drink it then – this is the important bit – don’t make them drink it. You can’t blame them for you going to the effort of making the tea on the off-chance they wanted it; you just have to deal with them not drinking it. Just because you made it doesn’t mean you are entitled to watch them drink it.
If they say “No thank you” then don’t make them tea. At all. Don’t make them tea, don’t make them drink tea, don’t get annoyed at them for not wanting tea. They just don’t want tea, ok?
They might say “Yes please, that’s kind of you” and then when the tea arrives they actually don’t want the tea at all. Sure, that’s kind of annoying as you’ve gone to the effort of making the tea, but they remain under no obligation to drink the tea. They did want tea, now they don’t. Sometimes people change their mind in the time it takes to boil that kettle, brew the tea and add the milk. And it’s ok for people to change their mind, and you are still not entitled to watch them drink it even though you went to the trouble of making it.
If they are unconscious, don’t make them tea. Unconscious people don’t want tea and can’t answer the question “do you want tea” because they are unconscious.
Ok, maybe they were conscious when you asked them if they wanted tea, and they said yes, but in the time it took you to boil that kettle, brew the tea and add the milk they are now unconscious. You should just put the tea down, make sure the unconscious person is safe, and – this is the important bit – don’t make them drink the tea. They said yes then, sure, but unconscious people don’t want tea.
If someone said yes to tea, started drinking it, and then passed out before they’d finished it, don’t keep on pouring it down their throat. Take the tea away and make sure they are safe. Because unconscious people don’t want tea. Trust me on this.
If someone said “yes” to tea around your house last saturday, that doesn’t mean that they want you to make them tea all the time. They don’t want you to come around unexpectedly to their place and make them tea and force them to drink it going “BUT YOU WANTED TEA LAST WEEK”, or to wake up to find you pouring tea down their throat going “BUT YOU WANTED TEA LAST NIGHT”.
Thank you Rockstar Dinosaur Pirate Princess for that fantastic metaphor. You can also find Rockstar Dinosaur Pirate Princess on Twitter or Facebook.
Tea anyone?
Like many other male rubberist, I find it to be a huge turn-on to have my cock and balls encased in latex. You can do this by using a latex penis sheath, also known as latex penis cover or latex penis sleeve. A molded penis-shaped latex condom which comes in a number of shapes, sizes, thicknesses, and colors.
However, the main issue when it comes to latex penis sheaths is finding a latex penis sheath that fits you comfortably. It is a nightmare! As we all know, male private parts come in a wonderful variety of shapes and sizes. Also, most stores don’t show their products so you can compare the sizes of them to each other. Very frustrating, indeed!
So last year I contacted Twist My Rubber Arm, who I believe to have the best selection of latex penis sheaths on the net, and asked them to send me their entire selection of latex sheaths. This way I could check them out for you guys and can now present to you my Ultimate Latex Penis Sheath Guide!
