As a fetish blogger, I have written a number of fetish guides dealing with different aspects of latex fetishism and the fetish community. How do you come out with a latex fetish? How do you go to a fetish party? How do I meet other people into latex? How do you wear latex in public? These are all questions I try to answer here.
Coming out and telling others about your latex fetish is an issue that most fetishists have to deal with at some point in their life. But the fear of being weird and being rejected often keeps people from coming out. There are many that are hiding in their closets throughout their whole lives and never tell a soul. But the fact is – if you got a fetish, you got it for good, and it’s not likely to disappear or go away.
Reasons for telling
A fetish can be a blessing for one person and a curse for another. When I first noticed my own fetish for latex. I did not know what to make of it.
I thought it was very weird and found it strange that an material like latex turned me on. I felt different and very alone. So I kept my desires and feelings to myself and hid them from everybody else. I was not proud of being a slave to my fetish. Every time I gave in and followed my lust, I had to deal with the guilt afterward. Being what you are is not always easy.Read more...
Everything was just fine, and then, like lightning from a clear sky, your partner jumps out of the “closet” and tells you about a lifelong latex fetish and wants you to take part in it. The world turns upside down, and all your partner can talk about is this “weird” thing.
You might feel sad, surprised, shocked or misled. Maybe you don’t know how to go about it, or maybe you even feel disgusted by the thought. But fear not! If you keep an open mind and try playing along, you will most likely end up with a very powerful tool that can send your partner (and yourself!) straight to heaven.
In my previous article, I talked about going to fetish parties, what to get out of it, what happens there. So to wrap up on the “fetish party” subject, I have answered the most frequently asked questions I receive from people who have never attended a fetish party.
Q: Where do I find a fetish party?
A: If there is a fetish store in the city, you can find flyers there or ask the shopkeepers for information. You can also search or ask around on the internet.
A fetish party is a place where people enjoy dressing up in fetish attires, meet to celebrate their fetishes and to hang out with like-minded people. It’s best described like being at a regular disco where people are drinking and dancing, but people are wearing various fetish wear or nothing at all!
If you are in the process of “coming out” a visit to a fetish party can be a major milestone. Meeting other like-minded people of both sexes, very often leads to new opinions and friendships being formed.Read more...
What is latex…
Latex is a natural substance, extracted from the sap of the rubber tree (Hevea brasiliensis) indigenous to Brazil, but is today also grown in Indonesia, Malaysia, and Thailand.
Latex is used in an incredible number of things, from condoms to tires, and has captured the hearts of many latex fetishists as the highest form of fetish clothing!Read more...