Latex Fetish Community

We’re not alone! The latex fetish community is well established, and support, help, and connect fellow rubber rubberists. The latex fetish community also assembles in large cities, such as London, Tokyo, Berlin and Copenhagen, where rubber enthusiasts meets, socialize and exchange ideas.

Since Heidi was familiar with the fetish social scene, she was able to make friends quickly. She participated in many online forums and did many things online. We could talk about latex fetish for hours because Heidi knew everyone in the community!

As Heidi visited us in Denmark, she ended up marrying my best friend. She worked in the Latexa store (shut down in 2010) and designed and glued latex clothing for Danish labels “No Pain No Gain”, “Strange Lifeforms” and eventually her own brand “Essential Latex”. She co-edited my blog (read her contributions here) and had many suggestions for my latex guide book.

A decade after moving to Copenhagen, my friends got divorced. At the same time, Heidi was diagnosed with breast cancer and had to undergo surgery. As Heidi recovered, she began spending more time in the UK. She met her new husband there, made many friends, and ended up living happily in a London suburb in an old cottage.

My memories of Heidi are full of laughter and warmth. She had a quirky sense of humor, an infectious mood, and a great sense of style. She attended our wedding, played with our daughter, and sat for our dogs.

On August 30, a memorial service was held in the UK. It was a beautiful ceremony and a very emotional farewell.

Heidi loved animals and nature and wanted us to support charity, so if you feel like it, give some money for animal or nature protection.

Heidi was one of my best friends, and I miss her.

Rest in peace, MissFuzzyBunny.

The goal of the evening is to bring together as many people as possible and create an inclusive environment for great conversations and connections.

If you’re interested in attending, check out LatexLogen’s Fetlife event for more information. Join this special event for a night of exploration and discovery in the exciting world of latex!

Two days ago, when I was talking to one of the coders from the FetLife’s development team, I learned that there actually exist a hidden search function on FetLife which lets you search ALL photos on ALL profiles at once, based upon the description of those photos.

Here is how it works:

1. Enter the keyword or phrase you want to search for
2. Directly after you add “+photos”
3. Hit return!


P.S.: Remember to send me a friend request – I’m 3xL on FetLife.

In an email to all IAHR members Ataraxia writes “I have recently retired from my job and after nearly 15 years of operating the International Association of Heavy Rubberists it is time for me to move on to something else. My heart just isn’t in it any more.”

I started my “out of the closet” journey in IAHR’s forums and learned a great deal from all it’s members. Ataraxia is both a great guy and a passionate rubberist. I would like to thank Ataraxia for all the hard work he has done for the latex community and I’m confident that he will enjoy his well deserved retirement… in latex naturally!

The sale includes all forum content, the “Rubberist.NET/.ORG/.INFO/CO.UK” domains and the (non-expiring) license to the vBulletin software. If you are interested, please contact Ataraxia privately. Serious cash inquiries only!


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